« The analysis marks a turning point when a patient suffering from narcissistic disorders understands emotionally that all the love he had been the object of and which he had conquered at the cost of so much effort and sacrifice was not in fact intended for who he really was, when he noticed that it was not he who was admired but his beauty and prowess. »
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Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child
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« I often hear that psychoanalysis is the discovery of child abuse. Such errors make it possible to measure the confusion that prevails in this area. On the contrary, psychoanalysis has slowed down and is still hindering access to this knowledge. »
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Alice Miller
Forbidden knowledge |
Alice Miller
Forbidden knowledge
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« It is customary to link the word "hate" to the image of a dangerous curse from which we must free ourselves as soon as possible. We often hear, too, that hatred is toxic to humans and makes it virtually impossible to heal childhood wounds. I, too, believe that hatred can poison an organism, but only as long as it remains unconscious and directed against surrogates, that is, scapegoats. Because then it cannot be extinguished. »
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Alice Miller
Your life saved at last |
Alice Miller
Your life saved at last
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