« "From the beginning, I had been implicitly given the mission of giving my parents the consideration, attention and love that their own parents had denied them. But, to persist in this attempt, I had to renounce my truth, my true feelings. Even if I struggled to accomplish this impossible mission, I was long consumed by deep feelings of guilt. Besides, I also had a debt to myself: my own truth." »
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Alice Miller
Our bodies never lie |
Alice Miller
Our bodies never lie
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« This tenacious, destructive and unfounded feeling of guilt, we can only overcome it if we do not commit, in order to defend ourselves, new faults, very real, in the present. »
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Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child
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« However, it is not easy to immediately discover the real reasons for this anger, because it is first directed at people who want to help us - for example our therapists and our own children - against people who scare us less, and who are certainly the triggers but not those responsible for our anger. »
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Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The drama of the gifted child
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