« In an article on San-Pauli, Hamburg's hot district, published in Stern magazine on June 8, 1878, I noted the following sentence; "You feel the male dream, as seductive as it is absurd, of being cajoled by women as an infant, while reigning over them like a pasha." This "male dream" is not only not absurd, but takes its source in the most authentic and legitimate need of the infant. Our world would certainly be different if most infants were lucky enough to be able to dispose of their era as a pasha and to be cajoled by it, without having to deal prematurely with their needs. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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« It is very impressive to see that, very often, pseudo-pulse sexual conduct disappears when the patient begins to live his feelings and perceive his true impulse desires. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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« It is very clear what anointed we risk getting into when we try to explain to a patient impulse conflicts that, since his earliest childhood, he has been trained not to feel. How could impulse desires and conflicts be experienced, if feelings are absent? What do they mean without anger, jealousy, love, feelings of abandonment and loneliness? »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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