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« Nothing can reveal to us the hidden drama of the unconscious mother-child relationship (in bonding's absence), than the sight of the destructive force of repetition compulsion and the perception of its silent, unconscious message in the reviviscence of the old drama. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
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The future of the drama of the gifted child
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« This feeling of guilt, the overwhelming feeling of not having met the expectations of the parents, many people keep it their whole life. Although they know intellectually that a child is not having to meet the needs of his parents, this feeling of guilt is stronger. It resists all arguments, for it has its roots in the very dawn of life and draws its intensity and stubbornness from it. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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« It was only when the reproaches, addressed first to me, and then to the mother, came that she could feel the immense despair left in her by her thirst never satisfied with contact. Her repressed memories of this distant and distant mother had maintained in her the painful feeling that a wall separated her from other humans. The violent reproaches also allowed, in the end, the disappearance of the repetition compulsion that led her to always indulge in an incomprehensible partner and live as desperately dependent on him. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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