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« Many people remain convinced for a long time that the humiliations were reserved for their brothers and sisters. It is only in the therapy of the day that they manage to remember and live, with feelings of rage and helplessness but also of revolt, how they felt humiliated and abandoned when their beloved father beat them. »
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« Both the grandiose and the depressive completely deny the reality of their childhood, living as if they could still ensure the availability of their parents: the grandiose in the illusion of success, the depressive in the continual fear of losing, through his fault, their affection. But neither can accept the truth that they were not loved and that all the efforts of the world will not change anything. »
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Alice Miller
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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« This is why it is extremely important that the therapist does not go, driven by his own need, to make connections that with the help of his feelings the patient is precisely discovering. Otherwise, this therapist behaves like a friend who would bring a prisoner a good meal in his cell, at the precise moment when he could get out and - even if he passes it to the beautiful canvas and the hollow stomach - know his first night of freedom. »
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child |
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Alice Miller
The future of the drama of the gifted child
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