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« (...), beauty and ugliness in the absolute do not exist. We can suffer a lot by discovering inner ugliness in someone whose physical beauty had seduced us. It was mistaken on him to believe that he was as beautiful on the inside as he was on the outside. Conversely, you only have to fall in love with someone you thought you thought was ugly to realize that as soon as you love, it doesn't mean anything anymore. »
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Françoise Dolto
Teen Lyrics: Where the Lobster Complex |
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Françoise Dolto
Teen Lyrics: Where the Lobster Complex
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« But we traumatize by silence, we traumatize by the unspoken much more than by the said. Between the unspoken and the said, even of a grave thing, it is better to say the grave thing. And the thing that may be going to hurt the child a lot, it must be said. »
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living |
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living
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« A human child is the fruit of three desires: it takes at least the conscious desire for a complete sexual act of the father, it requires at least an unconscious desire of the mother, but what is forgotten is that one also needs the unconscious desire to survive for this embryo in which a human life originates. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female Libido |
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Françoise Dolto
Female Libido
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