« Talking about what the child is doing, it's not psychotherapy, it's saying all you're doing, it's to tell me something, and I'm trying to figure out what you want to tell me. It's not what she does in appearance that's important, it's what she tells you about her behavior. »
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Françoise Dolto
It's all language |
Françoise Dolto
It's all language
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« The child always has the intuition of his story. If the truth is told to him, this truth builds it. »
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Françoise Dolto
It's all language |
Françoise Dolto
It's all language
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« "You ask me for advice; I give it to you, but above all I am only if you wish, because this council has value only in spoken exchange; it is the reaction of someone from another generation to what questions you. You needed to talk about your questioning, and I need to answer you, but don't take what I tell you as a truth, it's just an opinion. Since humans need communication, I tell you what your questions have aroused reflection in me, but above all, do not follow this advice; asks many other people and, through this, you will develop the answer to your questioning on your own." The important thing is that this is said since the child is very small: not to imitate and never submit to the other even if he is an adult, but to find his own answer to what questions him. »
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Françoise Dolto
The cause of children |
Françoise Dolto
The cause of children
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