« For it is necessary to know that a child must be damaged, he must. And this, because the child's play, up to four or five years, spoils. And this, because the child's play is not respecting things. If he is taught too early to respect what has been bought expensive, the furniture, the paper on the wall, it will prevent him from being "alive": a healthy child if he is gay and if the parents are not constantly alert: "What else is he going to do?". »
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Françoise Dolto
When the child appears, Volume 1 |
Françoise Dolto
When the child appears, Volume 1
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« I have often been asked whether psychoanalysis can explain everything. For my part, I believe that she is there not to "explain everything", but to help those who have become bogged down in repetition by repressing their desires: to help them get out of the same furrow of the record of their lives, which is currently filming on the spot. She's here to get life back on track. »
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living |
Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living
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« Abandonment is the fantasy of abandonment that has not been said. »
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living |
Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living
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