« What is also a pity is that it is above all a fantasy of perfection of love seen only in the physical and orgastic sense, when what a human being needs most is an evolution towards more humanization of his relationships. It is not in the search for the body, especially of his own, that he will find it, but in the loving relationship with the other. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity |
Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity
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« When a baby is not sleeping, it needs inter-psychic communication, sensory-motor exchanges, the rhythm of the mother's wear, his vocal language, gestures, mimics. He needs smiles, speech; everything questions them, any unexpected noise only makes sense by the parental presence that makes the child human all his unusual perceptions that make him cry, scream, call someone; that gives meaning to this inner and outer sensory richness awakened for him every time something hits his attention. »
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living |
Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living
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« Psychoanalysis teaches us that any act even harmful is in solidarity with a living whole and that, even regrettable an act or behavior that causes suffering can serve in a positive way for those who know how to learn from it. Alas, in each of us the feeling of guilt is fundamental, leading to inhibitions and barring access to the only liberating act, access to a true word that rehabilitates the total dynamic desire or perverseness to those who are able to hear it. »
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Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living |
Françoise Dolto
The difficulty of living
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