« Curiously, now that women drive as much as men, girls like to have a small car among their motley objects, but they do not play small car as boys do, who engage in games to come and go, to make their little cars come and go, to make them meet; they identify with the strongest, while she heals her own body, as a sign of being the preferred object of man. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity |
Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity
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« Wasn't the duty of this child, in the eyes of the crowd, to devote himself to his mother, for its usefulness to her? It had to be his old age stick. It is to his freedom as a man that this male voice, lucid, calm and firm, awakened him. Jesus awakens in the child of a dead father the future man, and with man he awakens him to his progeny, to his fruitful destiny. In death he snatches it from the call he heard from his father. This father whose voice had resonated in his ears in his early childhood was his ideal self. By death, when he left his mother, he was going to find his father. »
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Françoise Dolto
The Gospel at risk of psychoanalysis, Volume 1 |
Françoise Dolto
The Gospel at risk of psychoanalysis, Volume 1
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« Everything else is the value of orgasm occurring in the union of two people bound to each other by the bond of love. The coitus are then symbolic of the reciprocal gift of their attentive presence to each other, and of their sensible existence by each other. The ephemeral imaginary power that they promise themselves and give each other, in the reality of their body, to access the phallus, focuses the sense of their desire, that is to say of their whole being. The fruit for the woman of a complete vaginal and utero-annexial orgasm experienced on the occasion of coitus is threefold: the appeasement of all tension, the nirvanic bliss, and each time the conviction of happiness never before experienced. She feels a grateful outfaith for her partner, whose entire person, the only human witness of his existence during the fault of time and consciousness of her orgasm, perhaps then justifies her "slit", without him unjustifiable; the person of his lover is associated with his feeling and his feeling of renovation. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity |
Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity
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