« In the event that the first coitus has been a success or, at the very least, a half-success of pleasure and a success of increased affection and mutual trust between the two partners, it is likely that the sexual evolution of the woman will be towards more and more complete orgasms, until obtaining the orgasm utero-annexial. As long as she has not been recognized by a good man, beautiful in his nudity and desirable, the girl remains therefore narcissistically devoid of genital aesthetic value. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity |
Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity
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« There are also small arrangements to the child's bedroom that the mother could make. That the child is always near her a glass of water, on the nightstand. Many "bedweads" disappear when the child has water near him. Quite paradoxical thing for parents! This is because the child, a little worried or anxious, needs water. However, the immediate way to "make" water is to pee in bed, the second is to drink. »
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Françoise Dolto
When the child appears, Volume 1 |
Françoise Dolto
When the child appears, Volume 1
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« From a narcissistic point of view, the first coitus can be a huge success, as it can be, on the contrary, a catastrophic failure. And it depends only on man, if there is one; but, in most cases, it is often even more immature than the woman. It will be a huge success, if the man knows how to be grateful for the intention to donate this body that has been made to him, if he supports the pride of the girl in her promotion as a woman; but the event, for him, is generally erotically gratifying, and if it has not been narcissistically confirmed by his partner's admiring verbalization of his power or the beauty of his sex, he feels dispossessed by the pride of his partner, made a woman at the expense of his reassuming castration. »
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Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity |
Françoise Dolto
Female sexuality - libido - eroticism - frigidity
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