« Many suffer from poor self-esteem and are emotionally dependent on others for lack of having been received with sufficient understanding and benevolence; `...` They are still looking for the glimmer of approval in the eyes of symbolic or genuine parents. They are almost thirsty, and they fear losing the esteem of those who give them this positive reflection. In reality, they live in the eyes of others, captive to their own image. Their quest is invisible but if they could see themselves in this role, it is the figure of a beggar that would appear to them. »

« Without recognition, our inland waters raise large waves where we risk drowning. For emotion pours into us like a blade that carries us, takes us away or overwhelms us. »

« It is important to understand that self-love and the love of others are strongly articulated in relation to each other. A healthy identity is based on healthy self-esteem. To have the ability to love and love each other, you must have felt that you were loved. »