« The dragon mobilizes as soon as you begin your search. He's going to stand up a big mirror in front of his cave and turn it against you. This mirror has the property of being covered with a kind of fog that confuses the attackers. Here's the first test. As you approach the cave you will see nothing but yourself and you will wonder what you have come to do there. All of a sudden, you will escape the very nature of the problem you wanted to tackle. Like when you go to the doctor and, once there, you don't have pain anymore. »
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Guy Corneau
Victim of others, executioner of oneself |
Guy Corneau
Victim of others, executioner of oneself
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« Invariably, parental injury can cause the same problem in the child. A being who does not see his natural existence confirmed as being good and pleasant without having to perform a thousand antics to be accepted ends up with a narcissistic problem on his arms: he does not love himself and he will have difficulty loving. He will develop a false personality that will follow in the broad outlines of what pleases parents and abandon the other parts of himself. He was later accused of being self-centered, self-centered, susceptible and incapable of empathy. This is true to the extent that his true self lacked positive reinforcement. Having lost touch with his deep identity, he finds himself cut off from the life and roots of love. »
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Guy Corneau
Isn't there happy love? How father-daughter and mother-son bonds shape our loves |
Guy Corneau
Isn't there happy love? How father-daughter and mother-son bonds shape our loves
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« In the end, what really marks the child is the attitude of his parents to the setbacks of life. A parent's resigning mood often leads to the same thing in the little boy or girl. When they become adults, they will respond to the trials of life with defeatism. If, on the contrary, the parents responded to the trials with unwavering optimism, their attitude has a good chance of copying that of the parents. they will address the difficulties by saying: "This is not the end of the world! My parents survived, and I'll survive. Tomorrow is another day." »
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Guy Corneau
Isn't there happy love? How father-daughter and mother-son bonds shape our loves |
Guy Corneau
Isn't there happy love? How father-daughter and mother-son bonds shape our loves
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