« `...` for the teenager who no longer recognizes himself, overwhelmed by feelings, sensations, desires and thoughts unknown to himself, he wonders if everything he feels is "normal" `...`. »
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Marcel Rufo
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Marcel Rufo
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« I knew a little girl who had nightmares and called her dad every night. Every night, however, it was her mother who got up and came to reassure her. But the little girl invariably asked the same question: And Dad, is he sleeping? Knowing that her father was asleep was enough to reassure her. And then one night, his father finally answered his call: Don't worry, I'm here, everything is fine. So can you ask Mom to come? »
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Marcel Rufo
Everyone is looking for a father |
Marcel Rufo
Everyone is looking for a father
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« The son, for his part, will more willingly attack in his father the defects that are his own, which is more comfortable than attacking himself. In this period of doubt and vulnerability that is adolescence, self-criticism is too complex and too risky; it is better to doubt the other who raised us and who did not make us as we dreamed of being. »
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Marcel Rufo
Everyone is looking for a father |
Marcel Rufo
Everyone is looking for a father
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