« Children are always trying to express their fears, but their ability to express themselves does not always allow them to be well understood. However, it is essential that they manage to be intelligible and that they find an attentive ear to listen to them. Feeling loved is still the safest way to stop being afraid. (2 years) »

« THE TIME OF THE MATERNELLE It is not worrying that in kindergarten a child learns less quickly than another. Above all, it is important that he is part of a group and enjoys being separated from his parents. Between the age of 3 and 6, he considers his dad to be the strongest and his mother the most beautiful. This "honeymoon" will last about three years and will end at the entrance to elementary school, during which the desire to learn will outweigh the desire to love. However, during this period, he will be able to find in his teachers an identifying image on which to rely and which will loosen him a little bit of the Oedipal relationship. It is by leaving one's family that one sets out to conquer the world, and the encounter with the other in its differences enriches us. »

« without asserting that the influence of siblings is negative for the construction of the individual, in the life of each, what counts is oneself. You don't build yourself with your brothers and sisters, but thanks, against or without them. Many parents are deluding themselves: 'Our children will all grow up together in the same family dynamic;' This idea is based on a mistake, because the family is not a social microgroup whose genetic affiliation would organize the psychic functioning. »