« Siblings are a mini-society; like her, she needs rules that avoid being dominated by her impulses. This does not mean that destructive impulses do not exist in siblings. Simply, they are controlled by family and social law. »

« The child is also a social being. His imagination will sometimes be confronted with family conflicts and the tragic stories of life. »

« A nine-year-old boy, intelligent, beaten by his father: The most beautiful vest in the world: I question him again to know the cause of this great misfortune there. He cries more beautifully, then manages to articulate: "It is because of the death of my grandfather; he was the most beautiful and kindest of grandfathers. "Emu by this declaration of love, I ask him what profession this extraordinary grandpa practiced: "He was the greatest tailor in the world!" "What was he doing as clothes?" "He made me the most beautiful vest in the world for a three-year-old boy. It was encrusted with gold and precious stones, it shone in the sun, and also in the night." Then he adds, extraordinarily pure reflection a child of his age: "You know, this vest I kept, and I will give it to my little boy when he is three years old", thus bridging the wonderful past, illuminated by an idealized grandfather, and a possible future. It's my turn to have tears in my black eyes to me. Listening to him, I realize that the aggressiveness, then the departure of the father, had been more than compensated by the special and reassuring presence of the grandfather. The death of the latter has led to dismay and also fear of missing his future. it was thus a double loss that the little boy with the beautiful dark eyes was confronted: that of his family, and that of his beloved grandfather. However, I was not worried about its future: when we camp in the past in such a rich and poetic way, we can safely say that we will have, that we already have a future. »